i just say live your life. Im punjabi and sikh and gay. No, I`m not out. But hey - just do it. Leave your family and tell them you never want to get married. Eventually they`ll understand (without knowing ur gay) and they`ll love you just the same. Gurpreet, you`re not alone. Religion is what YOU make it. Just be your own sikh and be happy. I know its hard but it will work. If you ever need a chat or something just reply, you have at least one guy in the same boat also in australia.