I apologise for part of my last post as i felt it looked too harsh- sorry!

i was in no way saying that it was a bashing session for you, sincere apologies if i came across like that.

on the other points: it was actually you who was making it sound like dating a muslim was the kinda thing you would do as a last resort as u did say "do u think i would be dating a muslim if i could find a nice hindu guy?"   so in effect you are going for second or third best arent you???

i do not have a narrow scope of religion most times, but when i come across weak people who are going into a relationship knowing full well it will never lead to something more (marriage) i just find it crazy.  why would a girl like you ( a nice decent and lovely girl) put yourself and the muslim guy through so much pain and agony? why put yourself through it?

come one about your 3rd point, sikhs and hindus are like one, especially when it comes to back home, you guys live brilliantly together and many times i have seen adverts in asian marriage papers where sikh parents are looking for a hindu boy etc for their daughter or vice versa so in that context marriages between you guys are a dam sight more common then with my muslim brothers/sisters.

in the mean time, you have your "fun" or enjoyment with your guy and i dont mean that in a nasty way,

once again, sorry to offend you behan jee ( if i may call u that-though i think u will not like it cos u angry with me, lol)

kind regards, jam