I want to thank all of you for your responses. Some things have changed since i wrote my message a couple of weeks ago. I talked to my boyfriend. He explained to me that he is just scared to tell his parents about me and he also said that he was wrong to say "we should have a baby so we can get married". He has actually improved a lot. I had a long disscussion with him about it and guess what he did. He called his mother and told her about me and then a couple of days later i talked to her myself on the phone. He wanted me to talk to her. He said it was a good step for me to get to know his family incase we do end up getting married. My boy has just been under a lot of stress lately and he was looking for the easy way out. I dont blame him for any fault because he is human like everyone else here. Although i entirely disagree with what he said, i still love him very much. I care for him more than ever now. So i just wanted to say thank you to all of you who replied to my question. Thank you very much for your time and patience. My boyfriend and i have decided to take it slow, see what happens, then go from there. Because it is like his mother always says "Haste makes Waste"!