Hi Rebecca,

It is stupid and cruel at same time to get the baby before marriage in such a situation.

cruel because you are thinking of baby as a tool to solve your problem as if you are cutting your nails with nailcutter. Be generous to the kid as it has its own life as you and me and deserves same respect and rights.

if he cannt convince his parents he may not be able to do it even after you being pragnant.

risk you carry is many times more than what he carries.
what if he turns his back after you are pragnant.

pre-marital sex can be justified good or bad by different people but pragnany meany bringing of new life to world and hence careless pragnany is cruelty.

- Surinder