Thank you for the advice. I know that it sounds crazy,but he is convinced that it will work. I actually laughed when he told me, but it really is set in his mind that it will work out. He is a great guy, and i love him very much, but i know that if he were to tell his parents that he got a white girl pregnant, they would hate me forever. They would automatically have a bad impression of me, and if Im going to be with him forever then I dont want his parents to think bad of me. I know that in Punjabi culture that sex before marriage is totally out of the question, so i dont know what he is thinking. But, how do i tell me no. How do i let him know that his idea is a little crazy without hurting his feelings?