Gay Sikh!
Posted by Lali on April 3, 2007
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Gay Sikh!

Sat Sri Akal

I dont know if i m doing the right thing by exposing myself infront of you guys, I hope you will try and understand my state and i also dont know how people r going to react after reading this post.

I m a punjabi sikh guy who happens to b gay.... I have a boyfriend who is 32 years old and punjabi sikh as well and i m in a loving relationship with him for last 4 years, I love him very much and so does he, our parents dont know anything about us, except my sisters who r in denial right now about my sexuality which is really sad cos i know im gay and deep down in their hearts they know the truth as well. My boyfriend doesnt want to sit down and talk about this matter, he always says stuff like "it will b alrite", "dont worry too much", "our parents will understand us" but i know things are not going to b that easy if you are gay, punjabi and sikh!

I m a sikh guy but sadly dont know much about my own religion, I m sorry to say that :-( its so embarrassing... Does anyone know anything about Sikhism and Homosexuality? Is homosexuality allowed in sikhism? I want to marry my boyfriend (as in Australia gay couples can marry) and adopt a child one day, I dont know what to do right now, life feels empty at the moment and I want to make my parents happy but dark clouds r lurking above us due to the path that me and my boyfriend decided to follow!

Can anyone of you give me some feedback such as: if im doing the right thing? I dont know but lately I have left everything upto Guru Nanak Jee, well i m one of his creation and i m sure he will find a way out for me...

I really appreciate you guys reading this... i hope it wasnt too long and borin, sorry if someone got offended by this post.

thanks

heer


Discussion Thread
  Gay Sikh!   Lali04/03/2007
          Re: Gay Sikh!   Fred04/03/2007
          Re: Gay Sikh!   ਰੂਪ04/05/2007
          Re: Gay Sikh!   Sohrab05/11/2008
          Re: Gay Sikh!   gypsy08/29/2008
          Re: Gay Sikh!   rambo09/04/2008
          Re: Gay Sikh!   kartar04/04/2011
          Re: Gay Sikh!   navtaj03/18/2012
                  Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Summy04/03/2007
                  Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Randip10/27/2008
                          Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Summy04/03/2007
                          Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Lali04/03/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   s04/03/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Lali04/03/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   ਰੂਪ04/03/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   R04/04/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Summy04/04/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   R04/05/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Lali04/05/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   ਰੂਪ04/05/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Singh504/05/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Summy04/05/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Kaur04/05/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Lali04/11/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Summy04/11/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   MuayThai04/12/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Lali04/15/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Summy04/16/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Vic08/16/2007
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Simon05/08/2008
                                  Re: Re: Re: Gay Sikh!   Jessica12/16/2008

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